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Ok, for this post I'm going to have to give a bit of background on the situation.... In 6th grade I moved to a new school and quickly became friends with a girl named Cat. We were best friends 6-8th grade, but when we both went to separate h.s.'s we didn't see each other much. During my first couple years of college we became close friends again until school started to get hectic, I got a bf, and we parted ways for awhile. I then ended up taking a couple years off school for awhile and traveled/worked. After my then bf and I broke up, Cat and I started hanging out again. I re-entered college and we were best friends again, but this last year I have become so busy with school, the new house, and many other things, that I really did not have the time to drive 30-40 minutes to hang out with her. She became extremely upset by this and would call me daily. I was either at work or school so I tended to miss her calls, which made her even more mad. She then wrote me on facebook and myspace saying that "best friends always make time for each other and that we were always meant to be friends". I ignored this because, truthfully it weirded/creeped me out. (she has social issues) I felt that I'm 24 years old, not an immature child anymore, and I didn't have to deal with her drama. Over a week ago her grandmother died and she called my mom who ended up going to the funeral. My mom called to tell me that Cat's grandmother had died and that I should call and say I am sorry for her grandmother's death. I did not do this because I was uncomfortable calling her after not talking for months. Today, my mom calls me up and totally crabs me out for not calling Cat and tells me how rude it was.
I asked a couple of my friends if they thought I was being rude and both of them said "no". Was it rude what I did?
I asked a couple of my friends if they thought I was being rude and both of them said "no". Was it rude what I did?
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