Gizzymom
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I am so completely angry and disappointed right now. I will preface this by saying that when Giz went for his "senior" bloodwork in Sept, they brought him in the back for the blood draw and I could hear him SCREAMING from the exam room. They asked me to come in the back to get him because he was so upset and like "frothing" at the mouth. As soon as he saw me, he was fine. So I think it was the combo being taken from me and the blood draw. So when I called this week to schedule the blood draw for HCM, I asked if I could stay with him. They told me it shouldn't be a problem.
So Giz and I got up bright and early, drove 55 min to the vet for his 8:30 am appt. I asked if I could take a photo during the blood draw and told him (vet) the reason why (to post here and on my FB documenting Gizzy's contribution to HCM research). He stated that no photos are allowed in the clinic. I asked if we could "mock" a blood draw and take a photo and then do the real draw. He stated again - no photos in the clinic. I was disappointed, but what could I do? So then he stated, "I'll take him in the back for the blood draw and we will be right back". I explained about being with him for the draw because of how he reacted the last time. The vet told me, "if he would have been that stressed, it would have been documented in his chart". I asked him - are you saying that I am lying about it??? I told him that I will absolutely not let Giz get that stressed out again and I insist on being present. The vet then asked me to leave because he would not draw blood in my presence.
I left (after getting copies of all Gizzy's medical record and taking his photos down off their board) with my head held high, but as soon as I got to my car, I was in tears. I was so completely disappointed that we could not get the blood draw done. And I wasted 2 hours going out there after they told me it could be done.
So I spent the last hour calling different vets in my area to see if they make exceptions and let me be present for this and all future blood draws. You would think I was asking to assist with a surgery the way they were acting. Now a pediatrician would NEVER consider not letting a parent be present for a test or precedure on their child... why is it so difficult to put my Giz in a position of comfort by having me there?? My vet told me today that - "you being there isn't going to help". Bull****!!! Then how come last time, he immediately calmed down as soon as he saw me?? They may be the vets, but I know my cat better than anyone else!!
So anywho... I found a cat specialist about 45 minutes away that will allow me to be present during blood draws, but I cannot get in (when I am off work) until 12/27 (just enough time to priority mail the sample for the 12/31 deadline in order for Dr. Meurs to get the panding grant).
I just feel so bad cuz I was so excited about this. I feel like I am letting people down. I just couldn't let Giz get as stressed as he did the last time. That is not fair.
Can anyone tell me why is it such a big deal to be present during a blood draw? I'm just so disappointed... Also, do you think that I should file a complaint with the IDPR (Illinois Dept of Professional Regulation) because Gizmo's records were not kept accurately (no mention of his reaction to the last blood draw) or should I just forget it? It is not THAT big of a deal, but if they didn't document that, what else do they not document??
UGH.... Bad morning.... We'll try again on 12/27... (Sorry for the delay HCM kitties... but my "former" vet is a dickhead!! (I know it got censored, but I felt better typing it!)
So Giz and I got up bright and early, drove 55 min to the vet for his 8:30 am appt. I asked if I could take a photo during the blood draw and told him (vet) the reason why (to post here and on my FB documenting Gizzy's contribution to HCM research). He stated that no photos are allowed in the clinic. I asked if we could "mock" a blood draw and take a photo and then do the real draw. He stated again - no photos in the clinic. I was disappointed, but what could I do? So then he stated, "I'll take him in the back for the blood draw and we will be right back". I explained about being with him for the draw because of how he reacted the last time. The vet told me, "if he would have been that stressed, it would have been documented in his chart". I asked him - are you saying that I am lying about it??? I told him that I will absolutely not let Giz get that stressed out again and I insist on being present. The vet then asked me to leave because he would not draw blood in my presence.
I left (after getting copies of all Gizzy's medical record and taking his photos down off their board) with my head held high, but as soon as I got to my car, I was in tears. I was so completely disappointed that we could not get the blood draw done. And I wasted 2 hours going out there after they told me it could be done.
So I spent the last hour calling different vets in my area to see if they make exceptions and let me be present for this and all future blood draws. You would think I was asking to assist with a surgery the way they were acting. Now a pediatrician would NEVER consider not letting a parent be present for a test or precedure on their child... why is it so difficult to put my Giz in a position of comfort by having me there?? My vet told me today that - "you being there isn't going to help". Bull****!!! Then how come last time, he immediately calmed down as soon as he saw me?? They may be the vets, but I know my cat better than anyone else!!
So anywho... I found a cat specialist about 45 minutes away that will allow me to be present during blood draws, but I cannot get in (when I am off work) until 12/27 (just enough time to priority mail the sample for the 12/31 deadline in order for Dr. Meurs to get the panding grant).
I just feel so bad cuz I was so excited about this. I feel like I am letting people down. I just couldn't let Giz get as stressed as he did the last time. That is not fair.
Can anyone tell me why is it such a big deal to be present during a blood draw? I'm just so disappointed... Also, do you think that I should file a complaint with the IDPR (Illinois Dept of Professional Regulation) because Gizmo's records were not kept accurately (no mention of his reaction to the last blood draw) or should I just forget it? It is not THAT big of a deal, but if they didn't document that, what else do they not document??
UGH.... Bad morning.... We'll try again on 12/27... (Sorry for the delay HCM kitties... but my "former" vet is a dickhead!! (I know it got censored, but I felt better typing it!)