I am so angry!!! We took the girls (5) to Bush Gardens today. We were also going to go to a friends house for a new years party. Well the kids decided to not clean up, make a mess of the house, break glasses you name it they did it or didnt do it! So now we are not going!!! This is the second time we have attemted to go to a friends house for a party and the last minute the kids do the unthinkable and we end up not going! I am so angry with them!!!! Ok so I have 5 girls ages 14,13,9,2 and 1. the 2 oldest homeschool on the internet and the 9 yr old goes to school. My husband works over fulltime hrs and I am a Realtor. Well this past month I have not been working because of the kids, when I am gone nothing gets done, the house is trashed, they dont even do their school work. So I have come to realize that I have to send them back to school(which I dont like at all!!) But I wont be able to work. We just bought a house and I really need to work or else we will be in a sinking boat!! I have tried eveything with these girls! Allowance, grounding,taking everything away. I just dont know what else to do!!! Well thanks for letting me vent!! Any insight?