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nudieluvr

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Hello friends,

I'm sorry I've been away ,and even worse that it's taken so long to be able to write this.
I've spent over a decade with Brienne "Nanners". She was the second sphynx I had ever had the honor of owning. She helped to heal the massive hole from my loss of Smaug. She fit right in and became a household staple. She's been with me through a messy divorce, job changes, a cross country move, the birth of my daughter and so much more in the decade plus we've spent together. She was a good sphynx ambassador while also having her awkward, silly personality.

Earlier this year she started losing weight and I was quickly able to figure out she needed a dental and some extractions. Since then she's been great then a few weeks ago she started to lose some weight again. That was quickly fixed by changing her diet. Then she stopped eating. Her coloring was beginning to yellow. Her breathing as well was struggled. It was such a big change so quickly. Her normal vet of course was gone and we went in to a emergency vet.
I went in with a elderly cat who was having several issues and left with empty arms and a empty heart. Her heart was falling, her liver was falling and ultimately her body was failing. It was a very kind and peaceful passing. I knew it was time when sitting with her in the room and I offered her the ultimate treat. Something she's ripped apart bags of before. She smelled it and that was all. No spark in her eyes. Making that choice, I wanted to sit in that room, in that space forever. I wanted to freeze that time and milk every second.


Saratina, my little thing, has missed her so much. She just turned 4 and she has grown in so much confidence due to Brienne. I can tell she misses her and she definitely has been spending more time with mama. My heart breaks that shes lost her sister, her snuggle partner, and her rock. Im luckily on break so I'll be able to give her lots of snuggles.
 

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Gizmo25

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I’m so sorry for your loss. Unfortunately I know how you feel- I lost my baby when he was only 4 years old ( hcm) I am devastated beyond words. You will always keep her close to you heart. Again my deepest condolences
 

nudieluvr

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@nudieluvr I'm so very sorry for your loss. I still remember how you introduced Brienen here and how she found her way to your heart. Sending hugs and love to you and Saratina
@Toa and Ross thank you for your condolences. She was such a light in my life during so many dark times. She brightened my life and had such a special personality. I honestly feel like it still hasn't hit me. I dont have her ashes back yet. I still have moments where I forget she's gone. It ebbs at different times. I'm sad for Saratina too.
 

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@nudieluvr , (((squeeze hugs))) you are on my heart and mind. I am just reading your heartfelt words. My heartfelt condolences sweet Brienne Nanners gained her angel wings after a life of love and care beyond measure. All paws are family. I share in recent immeasurable hurt, yes, the emotions ebb and flow feeling the same now too. here for you. message me anytime for an extra hug, ear to listen.
Brienne could not have asked for a better mum.. She only knows your eternal love .
Remember the love, soo much love. No greater love. please give sweet Saratina extra lovin from me. here for you always my friend.

may love be what you remember most.jpeg
 

nudieluvr

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@nudieluvr , (((squeeze hugs))) you are on my heart and mind. I am just reading your heartfelt words. My heartfelt condolences sweet Brienne Nanners gained her angel wings after a life of love and care beyond measure. All paws are family. I share in recent immeasurable hurt, yes, the emotions ebb and flow feeling the same now too. here for you. message me anytime for an extra hug, ear to listen.
Brienne could not have asked for a better mum.. She only knows your eternal love .
Remember the love, soo much love. No greater love. please give sweet Saratina extra lovin from me. here for you always my friend.

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Thank you @Yoda mom my heart still hurts and it still feels wrong that shes not here. She had a great life and she was so loved. I have peace knowing that she was well loved and cared for but, it still hurts.
 

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Im so sorry to hear of your parting, I have just read your heartfelt post about your precious Brienne . Sending you and Saratina comforting hugs, Brienne will always be with you in your heart
 

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Hello - I am so so sorry to hear
I loved reading about her and how long you knew one another and her being there for you through many life chapters

How is your grief now and her sister

Heavy heart hug

I loved the photos
 
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