TheZu
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How can you tell what's playing and what's fighting? We got our second sphynx, Dude, a few days ago and he's the half-brother to our resident female Sphynx, Missy, who is almost exactly a year older than him.
Dude is set up in the bathroom and has taken very quick! We're taking intros slowly, cross scenting, trying to avoid contact. Missy hisses at the sight of him, and in the beginning even the smell of him.
Problem is, Dude wants to play with Missy. He's already super comfortable, wanting out to explore and is like, obsessed with trying to get to Missy. Over the last two days Missy has gotten more accustomed to his smell, but still hissing.
Well, today, when opening the bathroom to check on him Dude got out, went STRAIGHT to Missy and Missy didn't actually hiss. They started doing that kitty shadow boxing thing, but Missy did get Dude on his back a few times (and my heart stopped). No claws though, no blood...and Dude keeps coming back??? He wants to see Missy. But at one point Dude did have his ears back in what looked to me like a scared position, but he wasn't shaking. Then Missy started hissing again.
We are keeping them separated. I don't want any accidents, I didnt even want this encounter yet it. I don't like taking chances. I'm just trying to understand the behavior.
I should mention that Dude also didn't have any litter mates. Would that effect his behaviour at all? Or his kitty social skills?
Dude is set up in the bathroom and has taken very quick! We're taking intros slowly, cross scenting, trying to avoid contact. Missy hisses at the sight of him, and in the beginning even the smell of him.
Problem is, Dude wants to play with Missy. He's already super comfortable, wanting out to explore and is like, obsessed with trying to get to Missy. Over the last two days Missy has gotten more accustomed to his smell, but still hissing.
Well, today, when opening the bathroom to check on him Dude got out, went STRAIGHT to Missy and Missy didn't actually hiss. They started doing that kitty shadow boxing thing, but Missy did get Dude on his back a few times (and my heart stopped). No claws though, no blood...and Dude keeps coming back??? He wants to see Missy. But at one point Dude did have his ears back in what looked to me like a scared position, but he wasn't shaking. Then Missy started hissing again.
We are keeping them separated. I don't want any accidents, I didnt even want this encounter yet it. I don't like taking chances. I'm just trying to understand the behavior.
I should mention that Dude also didn't have any litter mates. Would that effect his behaviour at all? Or his kitty social skills?