we had a big group over one night, and i promise this happened all on its own. a group of men to the left of this photo, and a group of men to the right. sure all us girls naturally sat together, but i didnt really notice that penelope joined us until my husband pointed it out. sat on her own chair and everything! listened to the conversation, made eye contact, even acted a bit bored every now and then....i think its hilarious. but you maybe you had to be there?