My heart is broken | Sphynxlair

My heart is broken

Discussion in 'In loving memory of...' started by Skye, Jan 29, 2018.

  1. Skye

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    I’m still trying to wrap my head about what happened but sadly I lost my baby Frederick on Saturday tragically. He couldn’t breath due to blood/liquid filling up his lungs and my dad raced me to a hospital as fast as we could but we were too late. He died in my arms and the feeling of guilt is still eating away at me.

    Frederick was the most loving thing and everyone who met him fell in love with him. I rescued him two years ago not knowing he was going to save me through my darkest times. I just wish I could have saved him. I love you so much Frederick and just know I will miss you every single day.
     

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    • Toa and Ross

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      My heart breaks for you. So very sorry for the loss of your boy Frederick. Losing a buddy is always hard but so all of the sudden makes it more difficult. Big hugs for you
       
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      I am so sorry your boy got his wings. Fly high sweet baby. He knew nothing but your love....what a lucky little man.
       
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      @Skye , (((comforting hugs))))
      My heart breaks for you for sudden loss of your friend Frederick.
      Bless you for rescuing Frederick and showing him the love he so deserved ..
      That love leaps off the page in the touching tribute photos .
      Frederick knew love because of you

      sending you the biggest (((hug)))))

      "Replied the glorious cat
      For I will whisper into their hearts
      That I am always with them
      I just am....forever and ever and ever. "
      -from poem for cats
       

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      I am very sorry for your loss. It is so hard to loose a family member especially so suddenly.
       
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      @Skye I'm so sorry for your loss. Losing a precious kitty like that, especially so randomly, is heart crushing. I'll be thinking of you.

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      • KhaosKatze

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        My condolences. Its not easy. This makes me cry because the loss of our Gizmo is still so raw even though it was November. It does take time to grieve and its not your fault. I know this feeling though. I felt guilty like I failed because he just about 7 and I wondered what I could have or should have done to prevent it. The answer really is nothing. I did my best and loved and cared for him and cancer and many illness are not fully in our control. We can only try our best to get them the help they need or prevent/end long term suffering. My heart is with you. Let yourself grieve and cherish the good memories. <3
         
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        • Sheldon13

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          My prayers go out for you. But I also thank God that you found each other.


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        • assibassi

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          I am so very sorry for your loss :cry: Hugs . You gave him his best time of his life.
           
        • Mark bowen

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          What a sad story sending my love,,,,Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.
           
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          • ViLovAthos

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            I am so sorry for your loss :cry:
            This is so sad.... Sending lots ot love and hugs ur way :kiss:
            Stay strong
             
          • JSal

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            I'm so sorry for your loss. While the hurt is tremendous, there was probably no other place that he would have wanted to be than in your arms. :cry:
             
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            • Condo commando

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              Very sorry for your loss. You did everything you could, even though it's hard to accept.