My Monkey said "OK" !!!!! | Sphynxlair

My Monkey said "OK" !!!!!

Discussion in 'Sphynx Cat Tails' started by MissMySphynxBoys, Jul 8, 2010.

  1. MissMySphynxBoys

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    I have been holding back some very exciting news that I would love to share with all my friends here on Sphynx Lair.

    For those of you who don't know my story, my husband and I owned three early generation Sphynx boys begining in the early 90s. We lost Zulie in 2001 and Gollum in 2002. Both were 11. Tanker outlived them both and passed away in the Fall of 2008 at the age of 16.

    Because Tanker was lonely after Gollum passed, we began a phase of adopting various rescued pets. Although I longed for more Sphynx, I was having trouble justifying the expense when there are so many other things a family of 5 can spend their money on, not to mention I had convinced myself that it would be better to help unwanted animals then to purchase an exotic cat. Unfortunaltey some of the pets we have taken in have proved to have mulitple issues that have consumed a lot of our time and resources. We now have 2 Labs, 4 cats, 3 Guinea pigs and a parakeet. The last cat came to us a stray kitten in the Spring of 2008. Tanker was a friend to all including the Guinea pigs. He was the center of our household, so when he passed we took his frail body home so the others could smell him and say goodbye before we buried him in our backyard.

    The mourning period was particularly hard on me. Once you have lived with a Sphynx there is really no replacement. He was one of my babies before I had human babies. My heart ached not to find him in his favorite spots and to this day I still look for him when I unload clothes from the dryer as it was always his favorite place to be. Up until about 6 months ago, I could still find ground in smudge marks he had left on a few of our radiator covers.

    My husband has been such a good sport (he had to redo more than one wall torn to shreds by a golden who had a severe thunderstorm phobia) but made me promise after Tanker died that I wouldn't take in any more pets. I love my husband very much and agreed to honor his request. "No more pets" was important to him and it was important for me to respect that.

    Unfortunatley being without a Sphynx hasn't gotten any easier for me. I miss the personality very much. I started lurking here earlier in the year, but by May I couldn't stand not being able to see all the pictures so I joined. I kept my visits here very secretive and tried to hide it from my family until the day I got caught by my 9 year old. I quickly blurted out "Its nothing. I'm only looking at pictures. Please don't tell your father" and shooed her out to the bus.

    I felt awful on many levels but with encouragement from so many here, I came clean about my Sphynx Lair habit and talked to my husband. Mug-y's Mumma shared the phrase "Slowly slowly catchy monkey". I adopted that as my mantra and began slowly re-exposing him to the Shynx world. He loved our boys just as much as I did and was heartbroken by their deaths.

    Over the last several weeks he has been looking over my shoulder while I'm here trying to catch glimpses of photos and videos. During this time I have been open about my desire to own another Sphynx and to ultimately find one who I can explore an option in pet therapy with. I always thought the breed was very compatible with pet therapy and its something I feel compelled to do.

    Well finally my "Slowly Slowly Catchy Monkey" plan worked.

    My hubby said OK and has gave me his blessing to look for a Sphynx!!

    It will still be a while before I find the right one as personality will be the key, but it is a big step in the right direction. I have already been in touch with a breeder who has worked with a couple who do pet therapy with their Sphynx. I was given excellent references and I feel very confident that she knows what I'm looking for when it comes to temperament. Now the waiting game begins, but at least I know now that I won't be Sphynxless forever.
     

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    YAY Im so happy for you. We new we could help you work him to this point :Surprise::Surprise: Cant wait until you find your new baby

    Congratulations :ThumbsUp::ThumbsUp:
     
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    • ilovemysphynx

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      GREAT NEWS!!!!!
      There has been so many new kittys around I was feeling bad for you! I totally get your hubby on the no more pets in this house because mine (yes admin) says the same thing but I got him to cave for the puppy last year, the chinchilla R.I.P. and DeeJay. But I must say besides a litter of kittens here and there I am done now. I love the ones we have they are all part of our family but for now we are good. I must say I do not think we will ever be without a Sphynx:Laugh::Wink:

      Congrats again and we look forward to going through this great journey with you!!!!
       
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        Crying tears of joy!! I am so darn happy for you! No one deserves it more than you. What an exciting job to do-looking for that perfect kitty. But surely a labor of love. Keep us posted please!
         
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          *HAPPY DANCE* As soon as I saw the headline, I knew you had caught the monkey!!!! We won't tell your hubby that we have been planning this all along:ThumbsUp: Good job, I am so so so so so happy for you. I can't wait to see your new sphynx!!
           
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            Oh MMSB, I'm so happy for you! Now that Teeka's in my life, I can't imagine it without her in it. My bf feels the same.

            I hope you find your new baby quickly and get to give him or her all the love you've been saving up for them.
             
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              That's GREAT!! SOOOO excited for you!!! :ThumbsUp::ThumbsUp::ThumbsUp:
               
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                I'm so happy for you! This is really wonderful news! I can't wait to see the baby you get.
                 
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                  What a lovely story. I have to admit I teared up at the mention of the smudge marks. I can't imagine. I've grown so attached to Sophie it is unreal. Good luck in your search -this is such an exciting time!
                   
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                  • MikkiJean

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                    :BigSmile::BigSmile::BigSmile:Yay!!! So happy for you! I was crossing my fingers when I saw the thread!
                     
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                      Great news....congrats! :BigSmile:
                       
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                        Woohoo!!! Awesome news!!!! I can't wait to see the one you finally choose in the end. Its so much fun Sphynx shopping!
                         
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                          I teared up reading your post, I dont think I could live without a sphynx, not even for a day! My boyfriend is laughing at me now and calling me a sentimental fool when I explained why im crying right now, but I know he couldnt live without our babies too! I am so overjoyed that you will have a sphynx in your life to love soon!!! I think I will be eagerly awaiting your baby right a long with you! lol
                           
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                            YAY!
                             
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                              Your story brought tears to my eyes. I am so happy for you!

                              On June 15, you wrote on my wall...
                              "I am certain we will not be Sphynxless forever. The wait is killing me, but I know if I can stay strong the wait will be worth it."

                              And now you know how completely true that statement is. A huge congratulations to both you and your husband! Now I can't wait to see which Sphynx kitten you get to bring into your home, and love, spoil, and kiss to pieces. Let the search and new journey begin!
                               
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                                Congrats! I am so happy that you get to find a new Sphynx! That is such exciting news.
                                 
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                                • MissMySphynxBoys

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                                  Thank you all for your heartfelt encouragement and support. It really means a lot to me. Your posts touched my heart to the point of tears. Sadly I haven't been blessed with the same degree of enthusiam from the few family members and friends I have mentioned this to. I'm trying not to let their negative comments dampen my spirit or allow them to add to my own fears and worries. I keep reminding myself that this is my dream and I have to put myself first. Pet therapy is going to start with me!
                                   
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                                  I'm on the same page with you here. My family and most of my friends think that they are ugly. And y boyfriend is tolerable... because he knows it's live with the cat or don't live here :LOL::LOL: He thought I was going through a "phase." I'm convinced he'll love her though just likes he now loves our DSH. He didn't grow up with pets and isn't exactly an "animal person" but I am slowly transitioning him :Hysterical:
                                   
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                                    MMSB I am so happy for you to have a Sphynx in your life again! Wonderful news! I think it is great you are looking to share your baby with others as a therapy animal! Nothing like bringing a bit of Sphynx love to others. Don't let what negativity some people are bringing to you cloud the happiness of this occasion! Enjoy this journey and keep us updates on the "monkey" you have finally caught!!
                                     
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