I am sorry to hear this, must be terrible for you.
I do have to ask the obvious though.
You move in to care for her and to accept this help she demands(?) that you get rid of your cat? Sure she don't like cats but...
I hope it's not just as simple as that because ofc you should be able to keep your baby if that was the only problem.
Just wanted to know if he's adopted yet? Do you have pictures? I am looking to adopt another Sphynx for Pebbles. I currently live in Illinois so the drive to Ohio is not far. I've driven to Seymour Indiana to pick up Pebbles and when I drove to Virginia to drop my husband off at his next base, I've driven pass Ohio so I know how to get there.