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Hey all
I have a small problem.... as most of you know we lost Ossi and it's been hard on us. Now Fisen is a lonely cat in our house and luckily my hubby is home during days. Now it looks like he is starting a new job and I know the situation for Fisen becomes an issue.
I've been contacted by a breeder and she has a little girl, 7 weeks old, that needs a home. We've been talking about it and it's hard to make decisions. Is it too soon? Are we ready? Is Fisen ready? We think a baby would be best because then Fisen gets to stay the queen and hopefully she takes on a little one easier than a fully grown cat. It would also be good timing, taking home a new cat when the holidays start and I get to be home for five weeks. I wish I was a cat psychologist and could talk to Fisen how she feels about it. I know the new one will never take Ossis place in our hearts, but the girl is light color with a brown nose and brown ear tips, with blue eyes.... She comes from a family that scans the cats for HCM often, and that sits well with me! (I know there are no way to be sure). Is it a good dynamic to have two girls or is it better to mix it up? I've been given the opportunity to visit. I also know that if a do visit, I'm sold...
So what do I do?
I have a small problem.... as most of you know we lost Ossi and it's been hard on us. Now Fisen is a lonely cat in our house and luckily my hubby is home during days. Now it looks like he is starting a new job and I know the situation for Fisen becomes an issue.
I've been contacted by a breeder and she has a little girl, 7 weeks old, that needs a home. We've been talking about it and it's hard to make decisions. Is it too soon? Are we ready? Is Fisen ready? We think a baby would be best because then Fisen gets to stay the queen and hopefully she takes on a little one easier than a fully grown cat. It would also be good timing, taking home a new cat when the holidays start and I get to be home for five weeks. I wish I was a cat psychologist and could talk to Fisen how she feels about it. I know the new one will never take Ossis place in our hearts, but the girl is light color with a brown nose and brown ear tips, with blue eyes.... She comes from a family that scans the cats for HCM often, and that sits well with me! (I know there are no way to be sure). Is it a good dynamic to have two girls or is it better to mix it up? I've been given the opportunity to visit. I also know that if a do visit, I'm sold...
So what do I do?