peachfuzz
Lairian
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- May 19, 2015
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For starters I love you guys! This forum is so helpful and funny and informative about these guys. Don't know what I would do without this as a resource on my little dude.
But I just need to share/vent and ask for some perspective.
Lately between poo foot and just trying to keep gunk out of his eyes, skin, ears, and keep his nails clean I feel like my little Wade is getting so grumpy with me. He hates his weekly bath and ear cleaning and it takes both my husband and I to bathe him. He whines when I clip his nails (I clipped 2 too short in the last 2 weeks cause his nails are brownish so often and hard to find the quick even in good lighting, and he seems to have forgiven me but OMG felt so awful I just coddled him for a while) and when I try to wipe the "rust" off of him. I also have to basically catch him before he and his furry brother get let out of their room and wipe the poop or excess litter off of him before he goes racing around the house. And I really try to be gentle, use a soothing tone and try my best to warm things I have to rub him down with but still:sour:
He seems to have forgiven my husband and loves spending time lounging on him but I'm the one that usually does all the foot and skincare in addition to feeding them. I mean he still purrs with me and perches on back if I'm on the couch but he just seems less, I don't know, cuddly with me I guess? :bigtears:Have I just made my baby associate me with negative things? Or is it just normal for them to dislike all the cleaning? I would appreciate any advice from you all.
Sorry for the whining, you guys I just don't want my baby to grow to dislike me. :cry:
But I just need to share/vent and ask for some perspective.
Lately between poo foot and just trying to keep gunk out of his eyes, skin, ears, and keep his nails clean I feel like my little Wade is getting so grumpy with me. He hates his weekly bath and ear cleaning and it takes both my husband and I to bathe him. He whines when I clip his nails (I clipped 2 too short in the last 2 weeks cause his nails are brownish so often and hard to find the quick even in good lighting, and he seems to have forgiven me but OMG felt so awful I just coddled him for a while) and when I try to wipe the "rust" off of him. I also have to basically catch him before he and his furry brother get let out of their room and wipe the poop or excess litter off of him before he goes racing around the house. And I really try to be gentle, use a soothing tone and try my best to warm things I have to rub him down with but still:sour:
He seems to have forgiven my husband and loves spending time lounging on him but I'm the one that usually does all the foot and skincare in addition to feeding them. I mean he still purrs with me and perches on back if I'm on the couch but he just seems less, I don't know, cuddly with me I guess? :bigtears:Have I just made my baby associate me with negative things? Or is it just normal for them to dislike all the cleaning? I would appreciate any advice from you all.
Sorry for the whining, you guys I just don't want my baby to grow to dislike me. :cry: