Sianne_and_Alice
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So Dita has been here for 2 weeks today and I'm a bit worried, because at first she and Alice just hissed and then seemed fine with each other but now they're fighting!
Alice growls with her ears flat back and Dita stares and then jumps on her. Of course then Alice makes horrible blood curteling sounds that make my heart stop and I have to pull Dita off Alice and begin checking for wounds. So far they've both gotten a few scratches (nothing huge, a few on Alices head and back and Dita has a few on her legs and back, nothing bleeding but obvious scratches) I haven't seen any biting but I'm scared.
Alice probably weights about 5lbs, she's VERY petite. Dita however, is about 10 to 13lbs and I'm scared for my baby. Alice is a year and 3 months and Dita is 10 years.
Dita gets along with all the other cats, even plays a bit (the other cats are more her age though). But with Alice she's jumping on her and they fight, but I can't tell if Dita is trying to play, or maybe just put Alice in her place? Or is Dita trying to hurt poor Alice?
I just don't know what to do, my husband is ready to make me rehome Dita and I just CAN'T imagine doing that!
I just got her, I saved her! I just want them to be able to be in the same room. I have to keep Alice in the room with me and keep poor Dita out, now Dita thinks I'm mad at her!
Should I just wait it out and keep seperating them? Do I let them fight it out? Or do I have to find a better home for my Dita? I can't imagine sending her away, she's so sweet but she and Alice fight.....
I just don't know what to do, someone please help me, tell me what to do? I don't want anyone getting hurt, or sent away. I just want a happy kitty family!

Alice growls with her ears flat back and Dita stares and then jumps on her. Of course then Alice makes horrible blood curteling sounds that make my heart stop and I have to pull Dita off Alice and begin checking for wounds. So far they've both gotten a few scratches (nothing huge, a few on Alices head and back and Dita has a few on her legs and back, nothing bleeding but obvious scratches) I haven't seen any biting but I'm scared.
Alice probably weights about 5lbs, she's VERY petite. Dita however, is about 10 to 13lbs and I'm scared for my baby. Alice is a year and 3 months and Dita is 10 years.
Dita gets along with all the other cats, even plays a bit (the other cats are more her age though). But with Alice she's jumping on her and they fight, but I can't tell if Dita is trying to play, or maybe just put Alice in her place? Or is Dita trying to hurt poor Alice?
I just don't know what to do, my husband is ready to make me rehome Dita and I just CAN'T imagine doing that!

Should I just wait it out and keep seperating them? Do I let them fight it out? Or do I have to find a better home for my Dita? I can't imagine sending her away, she's so sweet but she and Alice fight.....
I just don't know what to do, someone please help me, tell me what to do? I don't want anyone getting hurt, or sent away. I just want a happy kitty family!

