- Dec 3, 2013
Well as many of you may know my partner paul has a brain tumour so besides hospital & other appointments were home pretty much all the time...this week is the school half-term & paul went to his aunties from dinner until 11pm giving me some much needed quality time with my family alone, weve had a amazing day...me & my sister took 7 kids to soft play for 3 hours then home for an hour to make a fuss of the dogs & cats & toilet duties, then i went out for a lovely meal with my friends, ive just collected paul, sorted the nightime meds & flopped on my bed only to find that Blue has pee'd on it, he has done this once before when we had a full day of chemo but today i made a massive fuss of them when i come in & give them all kisses & treats so i dont want to confuse him by praising him downstairs & telling him off upstairs, it couldnt be the scent from the last pee he done as obviously that quilt went in the bin, ive shown him what hes done & told him its not good & flashed the quilt & dryed it with the hairdryer, i cant do much more until tomorrow when i can buy another duvet...does anybody elses baby have seperation issues as that is all i can put it down to, hes good as gold & so clean, no accidents not even the odd slip-up unless hes alone, i dont want to shut him out of my room as that will confuse him as he sleeps in our bed, he can handle a couple of hours alone but after that he seems to fret....what should i do ??? Hes 8 months old now HELP PLEASE !!!