Hi my cat Esme used to love my boyfriend whom we moved in with months ago. A few days ago she suddenly acted scared of him out of nowhere - he doesn’t know if he potentially picked her up weird or accidentally hurt her. She then since has been hiding under the couch and I dont know what to do to fix the situation. Any advice? He also tried to get her out of a couch and tried to pick her up by the scruff area and I told him not to and not sure if that was what caused the problem.