- Jun 9, 2010
You know I like cats because they are honest to goodness souls. I don't like my ex husband because he is a bad person. I called him tonight to feel him out and to let him know how much he is missing out on his son's life. (Our child has been diagnosed as ADHD, Autistic, Aspbergers, Mentally Retarded, and I am not sure.) Yes they say I am not sure what is going on with your child Candys. I do know that he is very imaginative and he has a great sense of recall (on his terms) and he is willing to please and to go beyond what is asked of him. Everyone in his school adores him. He is just not a neurotypical child. OK so I am fine with his father not being in his life - a good thing because his father is a narcissist. I am fine with this 360 days a year - but this is one of the days I am not fine with it. The child is now in the third grade and has not been in any sports. I am just so angry because I allowed myself to be bluffed by an expert liar. Someone that sucked me into their life like a svengalli and I did not know what hit me. So now that I have made my bed - I have to lay in it. And I make a fine bed - I work a full time job and pick up odd jobs here and there to pay the bills while he still lives off of relatives and I don't even think he has a job. He went tru 2 homes and 3 cars right after our divorce. Now he has nothing. I am angry tonight because he is the one that wanted to have the child - I did not want to and told him that I feared that something would happen and I would end up taking care of the child by myself just like my first child. He swayed me to having a child. I WANTED TO HAVE KITTENS.