Toadie has HCM :(

[tontiangel]

Hello,

Got back from Toadie’s second EKG at Uc Davis. Nine months ago he was equivocal. This time there is enough progression on lower walls to be HCM - B1. No meds and they recommend checking in a year.

I cried thru the whole visit and the doc kept pausing to ask if I wanted a break.

They said I can surely come back in 6 or 9 months if I am nervous - but their rec is one year or earlier if he is showing signs.

So far he has not. Heart murmur grade 2 this time and last time was 1.

I love him and am sad but am glad I know.

 

[tuffysmommy]

Hugs Tontiangel, I am so sorry to get the news with you. Toadie has no understanding of the whole matter. He’s adorable and he loves you right back. What you do know is to make sure to savor every moment as I am sure you already have been….and keep a mind’s eye for anything irregular. We are all together in this. Lair Prayers for slower progression and hopes as I always have for the research to outpace the illnesses. My heart is with you and Toadie.

 

[tontiangel]

Hugs Tontiangel, I am so sorry to get the news with you. Toadie has no understanding of the whole matter. He’s adorable and he loves you right back. What you do know is to make sure to savor every moment as I am sure you already have been….and keep a mind’s eye for anything irregular. We are all together in this. Lair Prayers for slower progression and hopes as I always have for the research to outpace the illnesses. My heart is with you and Toadie.

Thank you - I am so glad they do not. But that can make it hard as we think and feel for them on these matters. There I was crying in the exam room and he is content sniffing and walking around! Helps comfort and bring perspective - life is still happening.

Yes savoring away and he and all I do for him is in Tonti’s honor and legacy.

Yes - I am aware to monitor breathing rates when he is fully asleep - and anything else like extra lethargic, etc. I will make sure to enjoy the days and also watch him closely. I hope I don’t miss anything.

Gosh yes I hope too with the research. These are such special creatures!!

 

[Catzzzmeow]

Stay positive. Some can have little progression for a long time. I know how hard it is to hear those words…and have struggled. We are here for you.

 

[tuffysmommy]

Old people have old expressions, Catzzzmeow…from your mouth to God’s ear !!!

 

[Yoda mom]

@tontiangel oh sweetie, here for you as you always are for me. I know the gut punch. It sucks. Remember Toadie has no idea what reports say. Sharing a positive my Yodaman diagnosed and no meds no issues for a decade. Give Toadie extra lov8n from me, we gotcha

 

[tontiangel]

Thank you all so much
It was top of mind to message here as I know there are always warm responses and feelings and shared understanding

 

[Annejo12]

My kitty was diagnosed with HCM in November so I know how painful the first few hours, days and weeks are. I have learned to enjoy extra snuggles, enjoy all playtime, and to just watch. Sorry you received this news, hopefully you are coping well.

 

[kauna]

Many of us have been in or are in your shoes. We understand the grief that is felt when the diagnosis first hits our ears. We are here for you!

My boy was also just diagnosed in March. He is low risk/ not on medications and recommended to recheck in 6m.

My first sphynx when she was diagnosed, was already in mild heart failure and started on 5 different medications. I chose to have her rechecked every 4m as the vets recommendation was 4-6m. We were able to keep on top of her progression better that way I feel. However, every recheck echo was kind of like waiting for the other shoe to drop... so it can be stressful.

I would recommend recheck in 6m if it makes you more comfortable.

 

[tontiangel]

Sending hugs out to you all and thinking of your journeys - past and present.

Thanks for that suggestion about six months - it feels dicey to wait a whole year in case something changes quickly? Or changes at all! I’d like to give toadie best possible chances with meds if and when needed.

 

[Natalie Murphy]

Bless you darling Just remember we are the only ones who can give our babies the best quality of life. Love, hugs , snuggles and food Makes the happy cat. You got this and we got you if you need any support These ladies are amazing just like you

 

[tontiangel]

That is so sweet thank you much !!!! It be true

 

[nudebea]

Im so sorry that you had to hear this news about sweet Toadie. Many of us unfortunately know how you feel so you are not alone. Go with your gut feeling about how regular you would like him to have checks . Remember he lives in the moment surrounded by your love and doesn't worry about what the future might bring Sending comforting hugs across the miles

 

[tontiangel]

Thank you
It’s helped knowing he be living in moment

Here we are basking in the sunlight this morning

 

[Yoda mom]

@tontiangel , awh.. adorable Toadie !!! hugs n head smooches!
does he play with the cam? mine seem to think it's a play toy and just knock it down for the heck of it because they can

 

[tontiangel]

@tontiangel , awh.. adorable Toadie !!! hugs n head smooches!
does he play with the cam? mine seem to think it's a play toy and just knock it down for the heck of it because they can

They don’t for the most part - but will if it’s in the path of their playtime with one another!

That’s sweet that they play with it - except when you be out and about and wonder oh no I can’t see them!

I actually had to get mine in an effort to break my fear of leaving them alone! It has helped

 

[Yoda mom]

@tontiangel , hugs n head smooches to your babies! nothing like play zoomies knocking things over.
I got cams years ago too for peace of mind to monitor epileptic sam rottie and diabetic bubba bear rottie.
I like to peek in and see what the kittles are up to.
give extra loving from me!

 

[Yoda mom]

@tontiangel , thinking of you, continued hugs and positive vibes.

hugs n head smooches

 

[nudebea]

Sending hugs to you and Toadie, you are in my thoughts

 

[tontiangel]

Thank you all so much
I’m very grateful to know him and to feel “ahead” of it - will do a six month re check to be extra safe

 

[Yoda mom]

@tontiangel , hugs n head smooches Team Toadie!!