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jboaa

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We adopted our boy Nudel (we had the hardest time finding a name that stuck so we went through a couple of them haha) in November. He had a few issues here and there - mostly vomiting, which we couldn't figure out. We took him to the vet at the beginning of this month as he had lost some weight. We found out that he had kidney failure. And it went down hill from there. Within a month we couldn't get a handle on his condition - even with following the vet's orders to a t, and then some (accupressure, herbs, essential oils - all specified for cats by a holistic vet). He spiraled and we couldn't wait any longer for the meds to do their job. His kidneys shut down today and we had to say goodbye all too soon. We are GUTTED. We are just feeling overwhelmed. We loved him instantly and deeply. He kept a very sweet demeanor throughout this whole thing. He lost half of his body weight (he came to us at 15 pounds). It was an intensley heartbreaking thing to witness. I just couldn't work fast enough to get ahead of his disease. I feel terrible. I feel lucky to have known him. But I know that we did absolutely everything in our power to help him be comfortable. We had no idea he was sick. I wish I had known him while he was well. :( We adopted him after we had healed from losing our very long time ill Cornish Rex. These were primarily my daughter's cats. And she has had to learn some very hard life lessons. One of which is doing the right thing, not the easy thing. And she totally passed these tests. She is a strong young lady. I suppose I am rambling. But needless to say... we are in love with this breed. One day I would love to have a healthy cat. It is incredibly hard to have them and have to say goodbye so soon.
 

Hairless Blessing

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Bless your heart, so sad. I'm sorry. It hurts so bad to loose our loved ones.
That's exactly what they are, our loved ones. It takes time and a lot
of prayers. Then, of course, you'll always miss him. But, you have
good memories, had a lot of love for him, and he gave that love
right back. You gave him a wonderful home. Did all you could.
I will lift you up in prayers.
 

Yoda mom

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@jboaa , I am so very very sorry for your loss of your precious friend ^Nudel^
Sending prayers for comfort and a big ((((squeeze hug)))) To you and your daughter ..
They count on us to be their voice when they cannot speak and give them dignity, peace , and selfless love.
and that is the hardest part of the journey with our babies..

When I miss my babies most , I look to the stars and believe in the quote "there is no death , only a change of worlds " ( rainbow bridge world)
Where they run and play pain free together telling the other bridge angels how much love they knew in this world.

^Nudel^ lives in your hearts forever

Rest in Peace sweet ^Nudel^


"Replied the glorious cat
For I will whisper into their hearts
That I am always with them
I just am....forever and ever and ever. "
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naomi

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So sorry to hear of your loss. It is never easy to loose those we love. Just wishing you the best - Naomi
 

jboaa

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Thank you all. I guess we are still in shock since it was such a whirlwind. Even though we didn't have him with us for a long time, this morning he was definitely missed. And it is so strange not to have him here to kiss on, or to not have to get his meds ready. That time I had carved out for him is empty and quiet. There really is a hole.
 

GoldHazel

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@jboaa, I'm deeply sorry for your loss and I feel for you and your daughter. I totally understand how you could have fallen in love with Nudel so quickly and how you are in love with the breed.
I hope your hearts heal quickly. Nudel knew he was loved and well taken care of.
RIP Nudel
 

Toa and Ross

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I'm so very sorry for your loss of Nudel! I feel for you and your daughter. I'm glad Nudel was with you these last months cause you loved him so much. Keep the good memories in your heart
 

Xandria

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I am so sorry for your loss. Nudel had the best life with you and is now nestled in your heart and memories forever. HUGS.
 
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