Muffin Update

[1sphynxlover]

Muffin in ICU at the Vet hospital at UT. She's been there for the last 4 days. They update my daughter every 2 hrs. She has septicemia, which is in her liver and gallbladder. When she took her she was in a diabetic coma but she is improving. The bill already is over 3000. I've agreed to help her. The vets said there was no reason to put her down but, her husband is over it. I can see the friction rising. In fact she's packed his bags and has told him be supportive or leave( this weekend). He's made plans for the weekend and Rachel wants to visit Muffin and stay at home. She's had Muffin for 16 yrs and treats her like a child. I consider her my grand cat. Oh, she will have to have a feeding tube for a while because her muscle mass is 2 percent. They hope she will be able to come home in a few days. I hope you don't think we are crazy, but Muffin means so much to her. I've talked to her about quality of life but the vets think she will be back to normal once they get the septicemia in control. Thank you all for your thoughts and prayers. They have meant so much to Rachel and I.

 

[GizmosMommy]

Poor Muffin I hope they can get her back on track. Sending prayers

 

[Catzzzmeow]

Thank you for the update. Prayers will continue until she is back home.

 

[Lickleone]

Don't think you crazy at all I'd do anything for my boys just as I would a human child. Hope muffin road to recovery become smooth she's just as bless as you for having you to look out for her.

 

[BluesMummy]

Oh no how sad, our babies really are like our children & i get 100% where your daughter is coming from, i would be exactly the same with my hubby in these circumstances, if there is anyway at all we could help, if theres any collection you have set up to help with vets bills etc i would definatley donate as im sure would many of our lair friends, i hope & pray muffins feeling better soon & the tension in your daughters family is eased off a bit once muffin is on tne road to recovery, i have been following Luigi's story & i feel all these poorly-kitty cases are a sign for me to get Blue insured, you are far from crazy i couldnt imagine watching any of my babies go through so much pain, lots of love, hugs, prayers & support sent to you, rachel & muffin, love Lisa & Blue xxx

 

[SphynxKid]

Wow, amazing the kind of work they can do now. I hope she continues to do well and makes it home.

JenJen

 

[Cat Dancer]

Poor muffin! Hope she gets well soon & that your daughter Hangs in there. Relationship stressors at a time like this can be particularly painful. Warm thoughts to all.

 

[Hairless Blessing]

Praying she makes a complete recovery. That's wonderful news
they think she will be alright. Happy for your Daughter and you.

 

[Yoda mom]

((Hugs n Prayers))) to You Rachel and Muffin..
When our babies get ill it is one of the most stressful times for all..
Sending mending healing thoughts

 

[1sphynxlover]

Please pray t give my daughter the strength to make the decision, what's best for Muffy. She is scheduled to have a feeding tube inserted on Friday. I gave Muffy round the clock care for the last 5 days. Believe me, it was work. She has to take meds 5x a day, coaxing her to eat, and having to see her in this shape. She seemed to be eating better but the vet said she had lost weight today. The septicemia hasn't gotten better, they are changing the antibiotic. SHe won't eat the prescription food but she would eat the Fancy Feast appetizers. She's using pee pads because she can no longer make it to the litter box. It's so heart breaking to see Muffy like this. My daughter is devastated. My heart breaks for her. She's 30, but to me, she's still my baby girl. It kills me to see her in so much pain. Don't think I'm terrible, but personally I believe it's time to let Muffin be at peace. I love Muffin, but I hate seeing her this way. She's 16 and has a wonderful life, she has been doted on, spoiled and truly loved. I hope you all don't think I'm terrible, but I believe she's suffered enough.

 

[MollysMom]

Giving an animal the gift to die with peace and dignity is one of the most selfless and difficult decisions to make. Please know that no one here thinks you are bad for being able to do that. Prayers and hugs for you and your daughter and Muffin.

 

[Hairless Blessing]

Please pray t give my daughter the strength to make the decision, what's best for Muffy. She is scheduled to have a feeding tube inserted on Friday. I gave Muffy round the clock care for the last 5 days. Believe me, it was work. She has to take meds 5x a day, coaxing her to eat, and having to see her in this shape. She seemed to be eating better but the vet said she had lost weight today. The septicemia hasn't gotten better, they are changing the antibiotic. SHe won't eat the prescription food but she would eat the Fancy Feast appetizers. She's using pee pads because she can no longer make it to the litter box. It's so heart breaking to see Muffy like this. My daughter is devastated. My heart breaks for her. She's 30, but to me, she's still my baby girl. It kills me to see her in so much pain. Don't think I'm terrible, but personally I believe it's time to let Muffin be at peace. I love Muffin, but I hate seeing her this way. She's 16 and has a wonderful life, she has been doted on, spoiled and truly loved. I hope you all don't think I'm terrible, but I believe she's suffered enough.

I don't think you are terrible. I know your Daughter is devastated.
But, I too think she is suffering and it would be a blessing to Muffin
to be put to sleep. Then, her suffering will stop. Sending up prayers.

 

[curlysue]

I couldn't have said it any better @MollysMom I use to manage a vet hospital years ago and it was always heart wrenching to have families come in making that very hard choice to put there pets needs before theres and loving them enough to let them pass in peace and with great love. I know it's always a rough subject but it's something we will all have to face and it will never be easy. Please know that if you need to chat I am here. I will be keeping you Muffin and your daughter in my thoughts. Please keep us posted!

Hugs, Nicole

 

[Yoda mom]

Wrapping (((hugs and prayers for peace and comfort))) around you your daughter and Muffin..
Sooo devastating when the time comes when we have to be their voice when they can't speak.. Phew.. My heart breaks along with you..having had to face these heart wrenching decisions too.. We are all here for you.. I am soo so sorry ..

When I walked this difficult path, someone told me " it is quality of life not quantity" to give our babies unselfish love and dignity .. It is the most painful painful inconsolable moment when we hold them tight and set them free from pain..
They earn their wings to fly free and pain free with the other angels at the bridge .. Touching our hearts forever n ever..

I pray for peace and comfort for you, your daughter and Muffin..

I always am reminded of the quote," there is no death, only a change of worlds" - Chief Seattle
They become our angels at the bridge forever watching over us thankful for the our love and strength when they needed us most..

((((Hugs))))

Tammy

 

[ZiggyStardust]

I am so very sorry you and your daughter are going through this. I don't think you're terrible for thinking it's time to let Muffin go. As Tammy said above, it is quality and not quantity. As much as Ash is my heart, I have to remember that as we deal with his HOCM. My heart aches for you and I pray for you and your family as you face this decision. ::HUGS::

 

[susi794]

Putting an animal out of misery and pain is the last gift of love any of us has to give. To lay down the burden to just survive and to slip quietly from the bonds of pain and suffering--surrounded by the family you have loved, is a gift. Muffin would not want to break up your daughter's marriage or to cause friction in her family. She knows she has been loved and surely that is not the legacy she would want to leave behind.
I believe your daughter will come to the right decision and pray that her end of life decision for Muffin is a loving one.
Praying for you all,
Susi

 

[Catzzzmeow]

Every one has said wonderful beautiful things about it being the last gift...they are right. Muffin will forever live in your hearts. Hugs sent.

Patti

 

[BluesMummy]

Oh no im so sorry things have got this bad for muffin, ive not been on here for a few days & feel like i have missed so much my heart goes out to you all but muffin has had a fantastic life & its a shame to hear shes suffering now, prayers sent to you to give your daughter the strength to do what she feels is best, lots of love sent your way xxxxx

 

[1sphynxlover]

I'm so upset! My daughter has scheduled for a feeding tube to be inserted tomorrow. She loves Muffy but she needs to let her go. It is the best gift she could give to her. Im hoping I can convince her today, not to go through with it.

 

[BluesMummy]

Its so hard nobody understands unless they have loved a animal & feel the bond, my dog bella was put to sleep at 14yrs old in 2012 just 4 weeks after my 27 year old brother was laid to rest after being killed 12 weeks earlier & 1 month after my hubby started chemo, i was heartbroken but i knew letting bella go was the kindest thing as she was having seizures & her quality of life was so bad i couldnt put her through it any more, your daughter will make the right decision, it will break her heart but she will do whats best for muffin, such a sad post, lots of love sent to you all xxx

 

[Ickushouse]

Sending prayers for your family and for sweet Muffin's comfort and peace.

 

[1sphynxlover]

I just talked to Rachel, she's going through with it. I even had my vet speak to her. I'm so disappointed, but I'll be there for her.

 

[Ickushouse]

I just talked to Rachel, she's going through with it. I even had my vet speak to her. I'm so disappointed, but I'll be there for her.

I'm thinking she will see how miserable the situation is, once the tube is in, and then change her mind.

 

[Catzzzmeow]

I just talked to Rachel, she's going through with it. I even had my vet speak to her. I'm so disappointed, but I'll be there for her.

You came to the right place for support. Many of us understand your train of thought. If your daughter is not ready to let Muffin go over the bridge, there is no way to make her change her mind. Just know, no matter how much you disagree, there is one thing for certain Muffin feels her love.
Patti

 

[Yoda mom]

Oh Muffin, I pray for peace and comfort.. I pray Muffin can tell Rachel it is okay to let go...

My heart just breaks along with you..

.. There is never a right time.. And no time is ever enough..
I am soo so sorry your family is walking this path.. you have found a family here of understanding and support ..
Please give Rachel and Muffin a hug from us..

I pray Rachel finds that inner strength for The Love of Muffin.. It is obvious how much Muffin is truly loved..
And it is so unfair that we have to love them enough to let go..