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My Poor Gilby. 1/9/09-3/8/15

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It's with a devastated heart that I post about my Gilby. He was a runt, the cat that no one wanted. I adopted him the week after I graduated college and started working for myself full time - my roommate said I could only get a cat if it didn't have any hair, and...well...let's say I have a sense of humor. We worked alone, just me and him, for 6 years- he would spend most days on my shoulders, purring and watching over my work. Even after we picked out his brother Finn together, Gilby just wanted to hang out and talk with me all day.

He was a grouch by anyones standards; a drama queen, the ruler of the roost. He liked things his way, and while he entertained people in our house he was clear that I was his only home.

Tonight I arrived from an overnight trip to find Gilby on my bed, his paws tucked under his favorite blanket as he slept in the summer. Unfortunately this time was different - he had passed in his sleep. He had been breathing heavily the past month, but the vet gave him a clean bill of health and we chalked it up to his life-long wheeze.

I'm heart broken, but I thank whoever is in charge that I had my short time with Gilby. He was my best friend, and my once-in-a-lifetime connection with another living thing. Gilby was my home, too. I love you Gilb, and I'll always cherish growing up with you.
 

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So sorry about sweet little Gilby. I don't think that you lost the connection with him...the love we share with other spirits can be so strong, that doesnt die, even if our bodies do. Gilby is still with you and will always be. Take care of yourself- sending you warm thoughts and hugs.
 

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@corter , sending ((( hugs)) and deepest condolences on the passing of your very special friend Gilby..
I am so sorry for your heartache. We are here for you.

A very special Gilby knows eternal love because of you.. That special bond lives forever in your heart. They touch our lives and we are never the same- they never really leave us-

When you close your eyes and look in your heart, Gilby is always with you..
 

MelissaAlice

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My heart goes out to you in this difficult time.

Hold tight to your memories, they will help you through this.

(((HUGS)))
 

Trisha

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Oh, that makes my heart break for you.
Hugs! Gilby can run and play with my Tyler who I lost a month ago <3
 

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Thank you all so much, it was really sad as I brought his little body to the vet today. However, it looks like he had been getting sick for a while (they think) and it's really nice to know he went on his own terms.

Lots of mourning to be done, and Gilby's brother is just beside himself with confusion/grief. I've put a deposit down on a 5 week old little guy for Finn to have a new brother, he's a cinnamon tabby Sphynx with blue eyes. Soon enough the house will be full of craziness again, but until late April I'll be putting all of my attention towards Finn- he's never lived without another cat, and I don't think he intends to start now!
 

Sam lewis

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So sad, but what you wrote was beautiful. It sounds like he had a wonderful life and you have some lovely memories that will always be with you. Sounds like Finn will soon have a shock!! Please let us know how things are over the weeks and of course when the little cinnamon baby comes home. Best wishes to you.
 

Rachel Candace

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:( sending hugs your way! So sorry for your loss. The loss of a pet is always so hard but the time you spent together will never change or be forgotten. <3
 
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