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Well I'm not 100% sure that my friend is going to get her.. Her Hubby is giving her a little fuss and I told her that I WOULD NOT let her have her if her hubby was not on board all the way. That I would not send her to a home where she was not wanted 100%.
If it does not work out with my friend, I have a great back up home(It's a member here..SHHHHH
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I just read this post, and I am sorry to hear that you can't keep Razell. It is good though that you are putting her first. I hope things work out....you and Blueberry are such good mamas!!
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So sorry you have to make such a hard decision! I actually know what you are going through!
When we 1st brought Arias home, my husband had HORRIBLE allergies to him (we got Arias, and my husband was away for 3 weeks, so by the time he got back and we realized there was an issue, I was already completely in love). My hubbs was willing to try some different natural remedies/healings, but those all take time to really kick in. So I had to go through the process of letting go of my little guy. I was able to find a friend who was willing to take him with the understanding that if in a few months time, the allergies had cleared (which they have! I tell you, alternative medicine is really awesome!!) we would take him back. My friend was completely open to "fostering" our little dude....the only downside was that she was in Boston and we live in California! but she was the only person out of all our friends and family who could do it, so I bought a ticket, flew Arias out there and on the 2nd day I was there, my husband bought a last minute ticket, flew out and said that he had been crying for the last 2 days b/c he couldn't imagine life with out Arias! SO we ended up flying back WITH Arias and my husband worked really hard on all aspects of his allergies, and within a month he was completely FREE of all pet allergies!
that was kinda a long story for basically 1 question,..sorry!....do you have a friend who would be willing to foster with the complete understanding that this is NOT a permanent thing? If I lived closer I would do it for you b/c i know how hard it is to find someone who will love your baby as much as you do!
When we 1st brought Arias home, my husband had HORRIBLE allergies to him (we got Arias, and my husband was away for 3 weeks, so by the time he got back and we realized there was an issue, I was already completely in love). My hubbs was willing to try some different natural remedies/healings, but those all take time to really kick in. So I had to go through the process of letting go of my little guy. I was able to find a friend who was willing to take him with the understanding that if in a few months time, the allergies had cleared (which they have! I tell you, alternative medicine is really awesome!!) we would take him back. My friend was completely open to "fostering" our little dude....the only downside was that she was in Boston and we live in California! but she was the only person out of all our friends and family who could do it, so I bought a ticket, flew Arias out there and on the 2nd day I was there, my husband bought a last minute ticket, flew out and said that he had been crying for the last 2 days b/c he couldn't imagine life with out Arias! SO we ended up flying back WITH Arias and my husband worked really hard on all aspects of his allergies, and within a month he was completely FREE of all pet allergies!
that was kinda a long story for basically 1 question,..sorry!....do you have a friend who would be willing to foster with the complete understanding that this is NOT a permanent thing? If I lived closer I would do it for you b/c i know how hard it is to find someone who will love your baby as much as you do!