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Smee, My baby.

samylaine

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Smee died suddenly early Saturday morning. We are shocked.
No change in appetite.. he used his litter box that morning. No coughing, sneezing, no nothing.
Friday night at around 10 pm, we heard him wailing and bellowing, he had never meowed like that, he came into our bedroom to let us know something was wrong, he jumped on the bed and he had poop all over him.
We wrapped him in a towel and tried to calm him. I came to the living room where he had been sleeping on the couch, and there was poo everywhere. Soft, but a hard ball as well. I thought, maybe he had a slight impaction and worked it out?

I cleaned the furniture, stripped the bed, we bathed him, and he was cold.. and breathing heavy (we thought from being upset). We wrapped him in a blanket and put him in bed with us.. he calmed down and started purring even.

Around 430 I woke up to the sound of that bellowing meow again and found him in the kitchen panting to breathe.. it was horrible. I called our vets emergency number and she met us at the clinic. He was gone within a couple of hours, he was in end stage respiratory failure.
They think he died from effusive FIP. I knew nothing about that until I got him and googled.
If thats what it was, that was terrible. I paid for a necropsy, and nothing abnormal showed up. Heart, lungs, liver, everything looked good. But there was a lot of fluid in chest cavity preventing him from breathing. She said the surgery center 2 hours away might could have shunted and drained the fluid but he wouldnt make it there in time.

We took him in as a rescue and knew little to nothing about his health or previous care, but we suspected it wasnt good.

My only fear now is telling my son when he comes home tonight. He was away with friends (which im thankful for now).
These are the pics I took of him that night as I was texting my sister worried.
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and one from barely two weeks ago of him sitting on me..
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Annika Laybourn

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Oh no:(:cry::cry:
What a chok. What a terrible terrible thing. I dont even know what to write. Im so sorry for your tragic loss. My eyes are even tearing up reading your story. :( :(
 

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I am so sorry, I get so choked up every time a member loses their loved one. I can't imagine how terrifying and traumatic that night was for you...try to keep the best memories closest to your heart.

Patti
 

Toa and Ross

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@samylaine what a terrible way to loose Smee. It must have been awefull to see him going down so fast and to not be able to help him. I'm so very sorry for you and your family. I'm glad you could stay with him all the time so he felt your love till the end. Smee looks so tiny and precious on the three pics. What a difference with the strong, healthy and handsome boy he was two weeks ago.

I wish you all the strenght you need to tell your son about the loss of Smee tonight. Thinking of you.

We're here for you if you want to share stories or pics of Smee!
 

Xandria

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I am sitting here in tears and shock. I am so so very sorry for your loss. These are the most difficult posts for me to read, but I also have a desire to reach out and support in the only way I can. Sending you and your family healing thoughts and wishing you to hold the memories of your beautiful Smee close to your heart. Hugs and condolences.
 

samylaine

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Thank you. My son came home this evening. He hugged us then went straight to Smees bed, then back to us and asked where he was. We told him he got really sick and we had to take him to the vet and he's still there. He cried and is worried.
My son has Aspergers, his best friends Dad is military and they transferred to South Carolina before Christmas. This is the first time they've seen one another since then. They leave Thursday and we will tell him the truth then. I want him to enjoy his time with his friends.
 

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@samylaine , oh my heart breaks for you and your family for the loss of Smee-
I am so so sorry :(
Please know we are here for you and your family-
((Hugs)))
Smee's love and life is forever engraved in your heart
Rest in Peace ^Smee^
You live in the hearts of all the lives you touched

"Eventually they will understand,
Replied the glorious cat
For I will whisper into their hearts
That I am always with them
I just am....forever and ever and ever."
From poem for cats
 

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Toa and Ross

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Thank you. My son came home this evening. He hugged us then went straight to Smees bed, then back to us and asked where he was. We told him he got really sick and we had to take him to the vet and he's still there. He cried and is worried.
My son has Aspergers, his best friends Dad is military and they transferred to South Carolina before Christmas. This is the first time they've seen one another since then. They leave Thursday and we will tell him the truth then. I want him to enjoy his time with his friends.

Hope your son can enjoy the time with his friends. I work with people who have Asperges and I know it can be very difficult for themselves to deal with stress and all kind of emotions. So this makes it harder for him and for you. Wish you all the strenght you need!
 

ZiggyStardust

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I am so very sorry. My heart goes out to you and your family. Bless you for rescuing him and showing him love, though your time with him ended up all too brief. ::HUGS::
 
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