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UPDATE: Hubby & I called cat sitter again about Sissy (2nd time)!

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I was really nervous about calling Sissy's cat sitter today after the weird conversation we had with him Thursday evening. But we knew that we had to call him to get some sort of update on Sissy's condition.

The sitter knew who we were immediately, which I thought was a good sign this time. But that was the best part of the conversation!

I first asked him how all the kittens were doing and he said that they are now responding to him and perk up when he walks in to take care of them. Made me think that they were lethargic days ago!?!

I asked him if he knew which one Sissy was (as my breeder informed me that she pointed her out to him because she knew that we may pick her up before she returns from her cruise). That's when the conversation really got confusing!

Of course, he didn't know which one Sissy was. So I calmly described her and said that she is the only one that looks this way. He asked me if she's in the back room or the other room. Now how would I know that? I told him that I was told that there is a room for sick kittens and another room for sicker kittens. Of course, my breeder told me that Sissy is in the room with "just the sick kittens"! That was all I could tell him.

Then he asked me again and again, "Which room is Sissy in?" OMG! I told him which one her mother cat was and what she looked like. He asked if Sissy would be with her and I told him that the breeder has two different litters that are three days apart and both mother cats have taken turns nursing the kittens, so I didn't know which mother cat was with Sissy. He said, "But shouldn't the kittens be with their mothers?" I said, "Well, not necessarily because the breeder separated the sick kittens from the sicker kittens and I don't know which mother cat is with Sissy.

But again I described what Sissy looked like to a "T". Reminding him that she IS the ONLY one that has that coloring out of the nine kittens split up in two different rooms. So he was nice enough to go to the back room first, which is just the sick room filled with kittens and Sissy was not in there. My heart fell! He found Sissy in the "sicker kitten room" and I felt sick as my breeder insisted that Sissy was not that sick and in the less sick room for sure!

So now I asked him how does she look...any better than the other day? He told me again that all the kittens were more responsive to him compared to the other day. Ok, that was good news. WHEW! But when I asked how her eyes looked and if she is still sneezing or does she have a runny or stuffy nose, his response was just like the other day, "I don't know, I'm not a vet, I couldn't tell you that!"

Yet, the other day, he did jump at the chance for us to come and pick her up...thinking we were in Florida at that moment! He is quite obviously overwhelmed with taking care of nine sick kittens, at least one other seven month old sick kitten (and who knows how many other sick cats and kittens?), plus giving out medicines, feedings, replacement formula and litter boxes. That's not even counting his six day a week job that he leaves the breeder's house at 6:00 a.m. and returns back at 7:00 p.m.!

Being that he doesn't know one kitten from the next makes me think is he really giving everyone eye medicines and oral antibiotics or is he getting things so mixed up that he's giving some kittens double doses or some kittens nothing?

I told him that we would like to plan on coming to Florida this weekend and picking up Sissy on Sunday (a week from today). So I asked if he thinks she'll be well enough by then to leave and he said, "I'm not a vet, but why don't you come and take a look at her and decide!" I reminded him that I live in NY and there's already been two attempts to pick up Sissy and my husband came home empty-handed!

So that's when he said not to purchase the plane tickets yet and to just wait until the breeder comes back home from the cruise!

@RetroKitty suggested the other day that Sissy go to the vet for a mucous panel. So I asked the sitter if he could please take Sissy to the vet for this test soon as it takes days and days to get the results. I told him that I will pay for this test. His answer was, "I'll think about it!" WHAT? What the heck does that mean? It's "yes" or it's "no"! And when will I get an answer as he may be thinking and thinking about this for two second or for the next 10 days! Gee!

I don't even remember ending the conversation after all of that, but I know I did tell him that I'll speak to him in a few days again!

We hung up the phone and my husband was fit to be tied! He said, "That's it, we ARE getting Sissy this Sunday no matter what. He said, "If we leave Sissy there until the breeders come back from vacation, Sissy may not make it until then!" Hubby also said, "Monday, we will take Sissy right to our vet and let him decide if she needs to be hospitalized or have tests done or just get new medicines."

SIGH, so that's what we are going to do. Sissy is coming home a week from today. I wish we could pick her up sooner, but this sitter isn't home much at the breeder's house. I really don't want to get Sissy and then have to take a late night flight home. I don't want her out in the NY night air as it's gotten very chilly out once the sun goes down. Even though she'll be wearing a sweater, have a blanket and her sack in her travel case, she will still be exposed to the elements. I'm not going to be able to properly care for her in a hotel room either...thinking I could get her at 7:00 p.m. from him and then fly out the next day early because the hotel room is freeeeeezing cold. I'll never be able to keep her warm enough there.

I'm so tense about this, it's like sitting on pins and needles. I woke up today and the right side of my jaw was in pain and locked. Tension, tension, tension. I want Sissy so badly. I want her to be healthy and live. I want to help her grow up to be a big girl that will be very much loved by her new Mommy & Daddy as well as three loving brothers.

Sigh again, ok, that's the story and tomorrow I'm booking the airline tickets and hotel as well as the kennel for my two dogs.
 

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wow . I am a bit speechless. He has no clue ! I am a bit baffled by all this.
I really hope all goes well for you and that Sissy is not as sick as he makes em out to be and that she comes home with you soon. I will hold all paws over here crossed for you and Sissy of course.
 

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Wow. Just wow. At least you can get her to your vet and find out what’s wrong. You might consider boarding her at your vet while you wait for the test results. I know that’s not ideal but at least she’d be in better hands than she is now and you’d have lest risk of exposure to your boys.
 

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wow . I am a bit speechless. He has no clue ! I am a bit baffled by all this.
I really hope all goes well for you and that Sissy is not as sick as he makes em out to be and that she comes home with you soon. I will hold all paws over here crossed for you and Sissy of course.

Thank you, Assi.

Robin :) oxox
 

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Wow. Just wow. At least you can get her to your vet and find out what’s wrong. You might consider boarding her at your vet while you wait for the test results. I know that’s not ideal but at least she’d be in better hands than she is now and you’d have lest risk of exposure to your boys.

If my vet wants her to stay over, I will do that. I'm just worried about her not being able to cuddle with me and she'll obviously be alone in a cage. :( I know that my vet will keep her on a heating pad without a doubt, but I worry about her being "alone". :(
 

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Oh wow Robin. I don't even know what to say. If I were closer to this breeder, I'd go get her tonight for you!!!!

I know, Sara, you are wonderful.
I know that everyone is speechless about this ordeal. My daughter and my husband are so angry. I'll probably feel the anger once I have Sissy and I know what's what with her health. I'm just so sad and confused as to make the right decisions for her. I just wish that I knew the truth. Why do people have to lie? I thought I had a wonderful relationship with this breeder other than a business deal.
 

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I think it'll hurt you more than it hurts her. ;-)

Hmm? Maybe you are right. LOL I just have always felt for all my pets since I was a child. When I was a little girl, one of my birds went from a big cage to a smaller cage for some reason. I knew that he was sad and it made me sad. I observed him for just a few days and told my mom that we have to put him back into his big cage. We did and my bird was so happy...which made me very happy. :) I just always know when anything bothers my pets. My vet once laughed at me (but in a good way) when I brought one of my dogs in and said that her right ear is bothering her. :)
 

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No, you're right. It's good to be in tune like that. You just have to set some feelings aside to put safety first. You'll just have to wait and see what your vet says. I've got my fingers crossed that she's miraculously healthy by Sunday!
 

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No, you're right. It's good to be in tune like that. You just have to set some feelings aside to put safety first. You'll just have to wait and see what your vet says. I've got my fingers crossed that she's miraculously healthy by Sunday!

Thank you. :) Feelings aside or not, I will do what's right for Sissy and for my boys.
 

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Wow this guy has no idea what he's doing. If he doesn't know which kittens are which, are they eve getting their meds? I think it's a solid plan to go and get her. I'm so sorry you feel so helpless :(:( hopefully this week will go fast. Sissy will tough this out! Hang in there!
 

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Oh Robin, I just don't know what to say! This is like running on a hamster wheel and getting nowhere! The sitter sounds like a real brain donor! Still sending healing thoughts to Sissy and BIG hugs to YOU! (when this is all over, maybe we can hold a Lairian convention in Florida and hold a mass picket in front of her house.) LOL
 

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Wow this guy has no idea what he's doing. If he doesn't know which kittens are which, are they eve getting their meds? I think it's a solid plan to go and get her. I'm so sorry you feel so helpless :(:( hopefully this week will go fast. Sissy will tough this out! Hang in there!

Thank you, I think this week will go fast because I'll be busy getting ready to go and get my baby girl. :)
 

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Oh Robin, I just don't know what to say! This is like running on a hamster wheel and getting nowhere! The sitter sounds like a real brain donor! Still sending healing thoughts to Sissy and BIG hugs to YOU! (when this is all over, maybe we can hold a Lairian convention in Florida and hold a mass picket in front of her house.) LOL

I'm starting to get a backbone and the least I'll do is give her a piece of my mind if Sissy is in a real bad condition when I get there Sunday to bring her home. I never speak up enough to her. I'm always respectful, but when I question things that don't make sense to me, she cuts me short, changes her story or like the last telephone conversation...she hung up because she "got another phone call"!
 

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Oh Rubin :( I'm do sad that you're getting sissy is happening this way, gotcha days are supposed to be exciting and yours must feel full of the unknown! I'm praying for all
 

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Oh Rubin :( I'm do sad that you're getting sissy is happening this way, gotcha days are supposed to be exciting and yours must feel full of the unknown! I'm praying for all

Thank you, Emily. Yes, Gotcha Days are supposed to be exciting and Sissy's Gotcha Day twice so far turned out to be sad. I hope that next Sunday's Gotcha Day isn't as bad as I'm anticipating. But I fear that she will still be very ill and very skinny. :(

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I'm so sorry you have to go through this all this guy has no clue what is going on or how to take care of the sick kittens.. And i can't write what I'm thinking of your breeder because I would get banned for it.. I hope you can take her home next sunday and that everything will be okay in the end. This breeder should stop breeding when she thinks it's more important to go on vacation instead of taking care for her sick kittens and cats.. This is so wrong. Again I'm so sorry you have to mess around with her. Big hugs for you robin
 

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Thank you, Emily. Yes, Gotcha Days are supposed to be exciting and Sissy's Gotcha Day twice so far turned out to be sad. I hope that next Sunday's Gotcha Day isn't as bad as I'm anticipating. But I fear that she will still be very ill and very skinny. :(

Robin
My goodness this is so much your going thru with this baby, just reading all of that left me with such a heavy heart and a pit in my belly. Is there anyway you can get down there by Friday? I just don't know this guy really doesn't seem to have a clue. :( I'm worried right along with you. Like tell him to leave the key under the mat leave a postal money order in a envelope tape it to the fridge. Video tape the condition you find her in (for your own protection) proof how sick she is. And just take her to hotel overnite if neccessary. Also what about buying a hot water bottle for her carrier on the plane to keep her warm? Also for hotel you could pack a heating pad or twin size electric blanket. :) I don't know how you have managed to get thru your days with all this stress I'm worried about you. You should stay on this guy everyday so he remembers to take care of sissy then he won't be able to get side track. I'm just in disbelief that your breeder is entrusting this guy. Sometimes people start out good but turn out to be very self serving when money is involved maybe your breeder has just lost sight of her responsiblities as a breeder. Don't be too hard on the guy he sounds young and inexperienced. I will be praying for your sissy and you to come out okay in all of this she is going to be so bonded to you. Hugs xoxo Xtina :)
 

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What breeder is this? I live in FL and want to b sure we don't cross paths if I ever decide to buy another kitten. That she ever went on a cruise with all these kittens there makes me angry. If she knew she was going on a cruise she should have not bred for awhile. But no. She wants that $$$.
 

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I'm so sorry you have to go through this all this guy has no clue what is going on or how to take care of the sick kittens.. And i can't write what I'm thinking of your breeder because I would get banned for it.. I hope you can take her home next sunday and that everything will be okay in the end. This breeder should stop breeding when she thinks it's more important to go on vacation instead of taking care for her sick kittens and cats.. This is so wrong. Again I'm so sorry you have to mess around with her. Big hugs for you robin

Thank you. :)
A few weeks ago, my breeder said to me over the phone, "If I have to go through all the cats getting sick again, I'm just not going to do this anymore!" Meaning that she's gone through illness before and it's just too much for her. I only know about illness last February when I picked up Simon. Who knows if it happened again and again afterwards, etc.? So it sounds to me that she may have already made up her mind that she's going to stop breeding and she doesn't care about anything but herself.
 

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My goodness this is so much your going thru with this baby, just reading all of that left me with such a heavy heart and a pit in my belly. Is there anyway you can get down there by Friday? I just don't know this guy really doesn't seem to have a clue. :( I'm worried right along with you. Like tell him to leave the key under the mat leave a postal money order in a envelope tape it to the fridge. Video tape the condition you find her in (for your own protection) proof how sick she is. And just take her to hotel overnite if neccessary. Also what about buying a hot water bottle for her carrier on the plane to keep her warm? Also for hotel you could pack a heating pad or twin size electric blanket. :) I don't know how you have managed to get thru your days with all this stress I'm worried about you. You should stay on this guy everyday so he remembers to take care of sissy then he won't be able to get side track. I'm just in disbelief that your breeder is entrusting this guy. Sometimes people start out good but turn out to be very self serving when money is involved maybe your breeder has just lost sight of her responsiblities as a breeder. Don't be too hard on the guy he sounds young and inexperienced. I will be praying for your sissy and you to come out okay in all of this she is going to be so bonded to you. Hugs xoxo Xtina :)

I won't be able to use a hot water bottle on the plane I'm sure...well, I guess if it's empty when I get on the plane, it should be fine. But I have a microwaveable, baby pet stuffed animal that will be in there with her. There are a few sweaters in her carrying case as well as her blanket and her sack. So her body will be warm, but the air that she will breath in and on her ears will be cold.

On one hand I certainly don't blame this pet sitter at all as my breeder made the choice to leave him with the kittens. But on the other hand, what was this guy thinking when he took on this "responsibility" to care for a house filled with cats and kittens and sick ones no less? He isn't a kid, he's got to be in his 30's at least because of all the years he's been volunteering at the vet's adoption center next door.

Your prayers are much appreciated, Christina and so are your hugs. :)

Robin :) oxox
 
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