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TsumePaws

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So I finally am able to update you guys about everything going on! It has been a CRAZY week!!

So I was admitted into the hospital on Saturday at 7 pm. I was scheduled to be induced so I could get my stubborn baby out of me! :LOL: I was 41 weeks on Sunday (due date was April 14th) and the doctor wouldn't let me go past 41 weeks (now looking back totally a blessing!).

I apologize if some of this is to much information or anything!

So I was basically "closed for business" as far as my "condition" was every single time the doctor checked, and same thing when I was admitted. So they inserted Cervidil which is supposed to soften the cervix and prepare for dilation. The Cervidil is just an insert with medicine in it but it has to stay in for 12 hours. So after 12 hours they re-checked my "status" and still NOTHING was going on. Nada. So they put in another Cervidil thing and I waited another 12 hours! After the second 12 hours went by they again checked me and nothing... again. So they told me they could either perform a C-section or start Pitocin which is to start labor. So I opted for pitocin. So they started the Pitocin and within the hour I dilated to 1 cm and my water broke. This was Monday early early AM. At about 3 am I got my epidural which wasn't pleasant because I am terrified of needles (cruel joke being pregnant and having to do all the blood tests and stuff ahahaha). Got my epidural and was comfortable enough to sleep! They checked me around like 7 - 8 am and I was only dilated to 2 CM. They continued to let me go. They let me go for awhile but in the later afternoon I started having increasingly horrible contractions that I could feel. Straight up PAIN not just pressure like normally you feel with the epidural. Then for a straight hour I was in agonizing pain. Like the worst pain I have ever felt in my entire life. They discovered the catheter for the epidural had fallen out of my back and my back was leaking so the epidural was no longer working and I was feeling all the pain. And the anesthesiologist was helping other patients and dealing with a C-section so it took an hour for them to get him in my room. I was screaming, agonizing, writhing around and trying hard not to make things worse by trying to push. Breathing was HARD. I screamed like a banshee and I kept apologizing to the nurse and my fiancee for screaming LOL! So the anesthesiologist was finally able to come to my room and he did a second epidural!! And of course the epidural took quite a bit of time to stop the horrible pain. After about another hour they re-checked my progress. They had stopped the Pitocin for the hour the epidural had worn off, and they re-started it once the second epidural was in place. When they re-checked me I was only dilated to a 3 (after all the pain and contractions and screaming), and my cervix was swelling up and actually closing back up!!! So my labor was going backwards basically. They think that miss thang (the baby) was just too big to come out and she was pushing down and I wasn't able to progress fast enough to get her out. So around 7 pm they ordered a C section and I went in for a C section at 7:30. It didn't take long for the C section and I already had the epidural catheter in place so they didn't have to do anything to get the drugs flowing and numb me all out!

The C section was NOTHING. Like seriously I felt nothing. They said the worst part would be when they removed the baby because of the pressure but I felt very little pressure. The most pressure was from when they were closing me up! When I first saw my little girl I was in shock and awe that I had this baby inside of me for 10 months!

Molly Ann (Ann is middle name) was born at 8:06 pm on April 22nd. She weighed 8 lbs 4 oz. and was 19.5 inches long! She is a BIG healthy girl! She is absolutely perfect!

So they took Molly to the nursery with my fiancee and for an hour I was in a recovery room while they monitored my vitals. I took a nap for that hour! Then around 10:15 pm I was taken to the post partum room and I finally got to hold my baby and feed her and everything!

I have about 100 staples in my stomach. It is quite painful. I am on pain killers and I can't do much at all. My fiancee is an AMAZING amazing guy. I am so blessed to have him in my life. We only live about 10 mins from the hospital. So while I was in the hospital he was driving home to let the dogs in and out side, feeding the cats, feeding the dogs, bringing me food, and after Molly was born he changed all her diapers since it hurts me to stand up and walk.

We were discharged yesterday (Wednesday) around 2 pm ish. I am SO SO happy to be home! All my animals were SO happy to see us, and Coal our oldest dog met Molly first and he is in love! Tsume and Akasha both sniffed Molly and couldn't really care less about her :LOL: .

Molly is a GREAT baby! Not really overly fussy, she cries when her diaper is dirty but as soon as the clean one is on she stops like immediately. I am in awe over every little thing she does and I can't explain the pure adoration I have for this little girl! And my relationship with my fiancee is even closer (didn't even know that was possible!) because we share a bond with our daughter. It is still so crazy to me that we have a daughter and sometimes I just stare at her in amazement that she is mine! She latches on to feed so easily, I am really sore still but we are both learning!

I am so proud that I am her mom and that I was able to have her! My fiancee is amazing, he is still feeding the pets, taking care of them, changing all the diapers, and he is taking amazing care of me on top of taking care of everything else!

I should be getting my staples removed Friday so for now I am taking it easy and just healing! I really really didn't want a C section but now that Molly is here nothing, absolutely nothing matters but her. Every bad thing that happened, pain, stress, fear, it is all just nothing because it all led to her being home!

And might I add that the first shower I got to take tonight after being in the hospital and feeling horrible was the BEST shower I've ever had :LOL: .

So we are home! I might not be as active on the computer but I will say everything is perfect right now!

And of course here are some pictures!!

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Pretty pretty baby!

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In her car seat all ready to go home

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And here is Akasha laying against my fiancee :BigSmile: She is so sweet! she wants to cuddle and her face is just like "what do you mean I am not the baby right now?" LOL!

Now I am off to sleep for a bit before the baby finds out I am gone! Sorry this was so long! I just wanted to go over every little detail and talk up all my hard work :LOL:
 

TsumePaws

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The pictures got a little split up! The "proud daddy" was supposed to be for the first picture! Ah well. There are pictures!! hahahahah!
 

Alimoore

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She is sooo beautiful!!! Congrats on finally getting her out after all of that work. I really enjoyed the story because I'm practicing in the labor and delivery unit next semester because I love it so much there. I cannot even imagine being in labor as long as you were, that is crazy! Not to mention your luck on the epidural falling out :Shok: Anyways, congrats again on the new baby and I'm glad you have such a great man to take care of you both and the pets :ThumbsUp:
 

shunterx

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Congratulations! Molly is absolutely gorgeous and she's going to be stunning just like her momma! It sounds to me like I would have picked the c-section to begin with, sounds so extremely painful, but I'm really happy you got through it :) Molly really didn't want to leave her cozy home! I hope we see you around the lair more now that you've had her, I loved the update :) oh and I love her middle name, it's mine too!
 

TsumePaws

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Thank you so much everyone! It has definitely been an interesting few days since we brought her home!

Molly is a SUPER happy baby! She isn't too fussy. She is so good about telling us what she needs. And normally its a diaper change or food :LOL: she is a great little girl! We definitely love her so much. We are those cliche' beaming parents lol! We have had lots of family come visit her and she just makes everyone fall in love with her, including strangers!

The cats absolutely adore her! Tsume sits next to her and sniffs her, Akasha likes to sniff her and give her tiny licks. It is so cute! Akasha loves to cuddle with me and the baby now. :Laugh:

Molly is not affected by the noise of the house at all, and although we don't get much sleep during the night it has been getting better as we learn our routine.

It has been a rough time with the C-section and healing!

Molly had her first pediatrician appointment Friday morning and she is 100% healthy! She weighed 7 lbs. 14 oz upon discharge from the hospital and she has since maintained that weight! She did so good for the doctor. I also got my staples removed on Friday! I had like 25 staples in my stomach :LOL: it pinched, stung, and was over all not very pleasant but I felt a lot better after they were out!

However on Friday night around 8 pm I took my pills and about 30 minutes later I got the chills REALLY bad, like I was shaking uncontrollably and felt like I was freezing. So I bundled up and fell asleep, my fiancee woke me up and I was on FIRE! Like I was so hot it was horrible. He took my temp. and it was 100.5! So he called his step mom (she works at a local hospital) and she said to take me in to the ER because I had a high fever, chills, I was sweating and felt clammy, my knuckle joints were sore, and my arms had gone randomly numb. She came over and watched the baby and we went to the ER.

They did blood test, urine test, and when the urine test came back normal with no infection they sent me for a chest scan and CT scan. They couldn't find anything abnormal except some swelling around the incision site. So they ran some IV antibiotics and some fluids to me. And they sent me home with a prescription for antibiotics. So I woke up Saturday morning feeling 100% better. I was actually able to do some light cleaning!

I have felt better each day and my meds help me a lot. I am still sore and achey and dealing with the healing and regular post-partum stuff but I am definitely glad I did goto the ER and got the antibiotics before any possible infection got worse and spread!

My fiancee has been taking wonderful care of me, the pets, and helping me with Molly. I am now able to do most things for her, like change her clothes, change her diaper, feed her of course. It makes me feel much happier being able to do all that! And it allows my fiancee to get more sleep so he can be more awake during the day to take care of the stuff that I can't.

I am happy I was able to update and then update again! I don't have a strong desire to sit on the computer because it hurts my back to sit down on the computer chair for long! I do enjoy reading on the lair so I try to do so on my phone when I have time!

Thank you everyone again! I appreciate all the kind words! :BigSmile:

I was so adamant about not getting a C-section and while it was a LOT to deal with I am glad I tried the Pitocin first. Honestly had I not TRIED to have her naturally I would have probably always said "what if" so it was worth it! Pain does suck though :LOL:

And thank you for the name compliments! Ann is the middle name of my fiancee's mother who is sadly no longer with us. She passed when he was 16 yrs old and I thought it was an amazing way to remember her. :BigSmile:
 
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