Worried

[renewedmind]

So as many of u know I have been talking to a breeder here in mo and she has been very good with communication and texting me back but yesterday she stopped texting no big deal she has done that before but then she always answered me the next day but no answer today I'm kinda worried afraid that maybe she has changed her mind and isn't going to let me buy a baby now so idk what to do

 

[admin]

So as many of u know I have been talking to a breeder here in mo and she has been very good with communication and texting me back but yesterday she stopped texting no big deal she has done that before but then she always answered me the next day but no answer today I'm kinda worried afraid that maybe she has changed her mind and isn't going to let me buy a baby now so idk what to do

Thats quite strange - have you tried calling her?

 

[renewedmind]

Thats quite strange - have you tried calling her?

No I haven't cause she said to text I didn't know if I should try calling or not

 

[renewedmind]

I'm kinda worried calling may make it worse if she is mad at me over something that happened on here

 

[Yoda mom]

I don't know what happened here and can only say don't read into it, give it a few days -
My adoptees first mum gets busy with life and kitties - sometimes it takes a few days to get back on our normal chit chats

 

[renewedmind]

I don't know what happened here and can only say don't read into it, give it a few days -
My adoptees first mum gets busy with life and kitties - sometimes it takes a few days to get back on our normal chit chats

I found the mom of the stud on here and sent her a pm and basically I'm worried that the issues that me and a couple other members on here had made her say something to the lady that has the mama that will have my kitty and now she don't wanna sell to me

 

[Cleopatra Beers]

Hang in there for a couple of days, if you can. There may be a problem that she is dealing with, and she'll contact you ASAP. Then if she doesn't after a few days, you might try Admin's suggestion and call her. Marcus' breeder told me when I thought I was bugging her too much (we were emailing or texting about once a week and going to see the kittens about every 2 weeks) that we were the ones who were paying a LOT of money for this kitten, so we were entitled to information from her. Hopefully yours will be back in contact in a day or so.

 

[renewedmind]

Hang in there for a couple of days, if you can. There may be a problem that she is dealing with, and she'll contact you ASAP. Then if she doesn't after a few days, you might try Admin's suggestion and call her. Marcus' breeder told me when I thought I was bugging her too much (we were emailing or texting about once a week and going to see the kittens about every 2 weeks) that we were the ones who were paying a LOT of money for this kitten, so we were entitled to information from her. Hopefully yours will be back in contact in a day or so.

Thanks for the kind words I had considered that she may be busy I know she has 5 kids so I hope she has just been busy

 

[Toa and Ross]

Hang in there! Just give it a couple of days and wait if you here something from here. Probably she's just busy. If you don't hear from her in a few days you could sent another message that you're so excuted about your sphynx baby and that you're concerned something is wrong cause you don't hear from her anymore. She can't blame you for carring about your baby

 

[renewedmind]

Hang in there! Just give it a couple of days and wait if you here something from here. Probably she's just busy. If you don't hear from her in a few days you could sent another message that you're so excuted about your sphynx baby and that you're concerned something is wrong cause you don't hear from her anymore. She can't blame you for carring about your baby

Yeah I know it seems like time drags on for everyone but I just want one animal that loves me and only wants me to cuddle a rub and kiss and play and all that stuff that's all I ever wanted was to feel needed and wanted I have a cat now named Kallie but she only shows attention if she is out of food or wants a drink out of the faucet my dog goes to bed with my mom and not me he sits with my mom and not me its like no animal I ever owned has been like just mine and only mine except Winston and he had to go and leave me and it hurt so much I miss him so much I just want another naked babies to be mine a friend a bud someone to cuddle and laugh with and play with that is only mine... Sorry I'm getting all emotional and rambling on and on here.

 

[Toa and Ross]

Yeah I know it seems like time drags on for everyone but I just want one animal that loves me and only wants me to cuddle a rub and kiss and play and all that stuff that's all I ever wanted was to feel needed and wanted I have a cat now named Kallie but she only shows attention if she is out of food or wants a drink out of the faucet my dog goes to bed with my mom and not me he sits with my mom and not me its like no animal I ever owned has been like just mine and only mine except Winston and he had to go and leave me and it hurt so much I miss him so much I just want another naked babies to be mine a friend a bud someone to cuddle and laugh with and play with that is only mine... Sorry I'm getting all emotional and rambling on and on here.

For everybody it's important to have somebody (human or pet) to love and cuddle! And sphynx cats are special cause they love there humans so much.
Breath in...breath out...try to calm down and just wait. I know it's hard and difficult. Hopefully you hear from the breeder soon

 

[renewedmind]

For everybody it's important to have somebody (human or pet) to love and cuddle! And sphynx cats are special cause they love there humans so much.
Breath in...breath out...try to calm down and just wait. I know it's hard and difficult. Hopefully you hear from the breeder soon

Thanks

 

[GoldHazel]

Thanks for the kind words I had considered that she may be busy I know she has 5 kids so I hope she has just been busy

Well I bet she's busy with 5 kids let alone a breeding business.
I too would give it a bit more time, then I'd call her. Who knows?...Maybe she lost her cell phone or it broke. Hoping for the best.

 

[renewedmind]

I'm thinking I may try calling tomorrow or I may wait until Friday I'm not sure

 

[Toa and Ross]

I'm thinking I may try calling tomorrow or I may wait until Friday I'm not sure

Just do what you feel is for the best. If you call her and you just stay with yourself (you just worry a little cause you're so excited about getting a sphynx) then she will understand why you're calling her.

 

[GoldHazel]

I'm thinking I may try calling tomorrow or I may wait until Friday I'm not sure

It's up to you, of course. If you can't take the "silence" any longer, then call her today. Best of luck and keep us informed.

 

[Lickleone]

Pick up a phone and call her if you worried breeders are often very busy they have work, children and then kittens. We as a society are becoming far to reliant on text message sometimes a phone call is quicker

 

[GoldHazel]

@renewedmind have to called the breeder?

 

[renewedmind]

I tried it just rang and rang and rang until a message came on saying the wireless subscriber is not available please try again later... So I will try again tomorrow... It kinda makes me sad while I don't have the money to pay for it until my mom gets her income tax back she was the cheepest I could find in the state and I miss having a naked so much

 

[renewedmind]

Thanks for asking tho @GoldHazel and I know your thinking if he can't afford to buy one then how will he afford to take care of it... And that is a good question my answer ... My local vet that I have always taken all my animals too and so did my grandma when she had a kennel allows me to charge to an account and make payments that is how I could afford the vet bills... I just miss Winston so much I wish he hadn't died on me but it was his time to go he was old when I got him and I miss him so much he was my best friend and the best animal I ever had he loved me so much

 

[Yoda mom]

((Hugs))) amd to be totally honest , I would go with your gut - for me personally it is not a good sign of that recording - fwiw, maybe it means your heart kitty is out there waiting for your hearts to align at the right time - I felt like I waited forever
You know you have all our positive vibes that a healthy happy kitty finds you..

I truly believe ^Winston^ will send you the one to love like he knew in this world -
He may be being very selective for just the right one

Ps- great you have an incredible working relationship with your vet -

 

[renewedmind]

Thanks @yodamom I appreciate it

 

[GoldHazel]

Thanks for asking tho @GoldHazel and I know your thinking if he can't afford to buy one then how will he afford to take care of it... And that is a good question my answer ... My local vet that I have always taken all my animals too and so did my grandma when she had a kennel allows me to charge to an account and make payments that is how I could afford the vet bills... I just miss Winston so much I wish he hadn't died on me but it was his time to go he was old when I got him and I miss him so much he was my best friend and the best animal I ever had he loved me so much

Aww, I'm so sorry @renewedmind. I didn't know you lost your best friend. I thought you had one and wanted another one.
And, no, I wasn't wondering if you could afford one or to take care of one. I don't know anything about you yet. Sorry you are longing for another best friend.

 

[renewedmind]

Aww, I'm so sorry @renewedmind. I didn't know you lost your best friend. I thought you had one and wanted another one.
And, no, I wasn't wondering if you could afford one or to take care of one. I don't know anything about you yet. Sorry you are longing for another best friend.

Thanks... And no I don't have one I did I adopted him several years ago but he was already 8 or 9 when I got him and I rescued him... I was told that his owner had died and she left him to a guy that worked on her house that Winston seemed to like but he had a daughter that was used to picking cats up and throwing them over her shoulder and carrying them around and Winston was not into that at all not to mention if it was true he had just lost his owner... When I went and got him he was covered in poop so I didn't want to let him out in my car then he got sick on the ride once I got him home he wasn't a happy camper but I gave him a bath anyway cause he desperately needed it I then left him to do his own thing in my room till he calmed down after a day or two I took him to the vet the gave him boosters on all his shots and he had an ear infection in both ears which I treated I nursed him back to health and eventually one night he claimed out from under the blankets on my bed and got in my arms and laid there then woke me up in the middle of the night giving me kitty kisses he became my best friend I moved to go to college and took him with me but he got sick and the vet where I was at that time couldn't figure out why and he eventually passed away I was so sad it was before Christmas of 2014 that he passed and then around that time in 2015 I couldn't stand being lonely anymore and decided to start looking again as I long for another naked best friend again I just can't do the 1000 and up most people want for them... I don't care if it is registered or has a 5 year health guarantee or 3 years of health insurance I just want another best friend

 

[GoldHazel]

Thanks... And no I don't have one I did I adopted him several years ago but he was already 8 or 9 when I got him and I rescued him... I was told that his owner had died and she left him to a guy that worked on her house that Winston seemed to like but he had a daughter that was used to picking cats up and throwing them over her shoulder and carrying them around and Winston was not into that at all not to mention if it was true he had just lost his owner... When I went and got him he was covered in poop so I didn't want to let him out in my car then he got sick on the ride once I got him home he wasn't a happy camper but I gave him a bath anyway cause he desperately needed it I then left him to do his own thing in my room till he calmed down after a day or two I took him to the vet the gave him boosters on all his shots and he had an ear infection in both ears which I treated I nursed him back to health and eventually one night he claimed out from under the blankets on my bed and got in my arms and laid there then woke me up in the middle of the night giving me kitty kisses he became my best friend I moved to go to college and took him with me but he got sick and the vet where I was at that time couldn't figure out why and he eventually passed away I was so sad it was before Christmas of 2014 that he passed and then around that time in 2015 I couldn't stand being lonely anymore and decided to start looking again as I long for another naked best friend again I just can't do the 1000 and up most people want for them... I don't care if it is registered or has a 5 year health guarantee or 3 years of health insurance I just want another best friend

Aww, I certainly can understand you longing for another.

Have you tried other breeders that may have a retired naked (that isn't as old as Winston was when you got him)? Maybe you can save some of your work salary and eventually save up enough money for a kitten this time. I wish you the best.